Many men who want to date a hard body girl, like a female bodybuilder, simply have no idea where to meet them. While these guys are charismatic, confident, and successful they still cannot easily find a sexy muscular woman to date. Here are a few suggestions of where to meet a muscular woman besides the gym:
– Any of the smoothie, health food, or grocery stores right near the gym.
A great physique requires making healthier eating choices and (usually) some form of sports supplements. Frequent those places where a female hard body will go and you have just increased your odds of meeting in a more relaxed setting.
– Local bodybuilding contests
Especially the pre-judging in the morning. Most people who attend pre-judging are friends, family, and fellow competitors. Yet this is where the majority of the decisions by the judges are made, so consider being there. As always, be cool and respectful — most of these women have heard every bad (or even “freaky” or “scary”) pickup line in the book so be cool. You wouldn’t bug an NFL player too much if you were both at a scouting combine and he was intensely surveying his potential competition; and it’s the same thing during bodybuilding, figure, and fitness contests for the women.
– Online dating services.
Surprisingly, many women who have competed in bodybuilding, figure, or fitness have ventured to online dating services in order to meet men whom they consider to be to “real” and “authentic.” Yes, national-caliber competitors have gone online so consider this as well. Just remember to be respectful, cool, authentic, and always find something you genuinely like about a muscular woman other than her muscles.
There are other places to meet these women, but start with these three. Remember that if it doesn’t work out with a particular woman (in any case) move on and remind yourself that the universe has more to offer. Obsessing over any one person who does not want your company can lead to stalking or other freaky (and illegal) behaviors. If you even remotely consider such actions, immediately stop looking for dating advice or trying to meet women and get medical or psychological help right away.